[Sep 2025] About Mindset
It is our mindset that ultimately determines who we become! A winner's mindset will look at failures as opportunities to learn and adversities as opportunities to discover one's potential!
Hey Champ,
Hope you are doing well! I miss you like always and there are so many moments when I look around and see places where both of us walked or talked and for just a few seconds there, I would time-travel and relive those memories and feel fortunate that I got a chance to spend those moments and be around you.
You not being around now, does not take away even the slightest bit from what you always meant to me. That’s how its always going to be!
I can’t believe this is already the 21st letter I’m writing to you. Each of these notes is a piece of my heart — a quiet conversation between us, written with the hope that one day, you’ll sit with them the way you sit with a trusted friend.
Before I add further to everything I have communicated so far, I think it might be worthwhile to look back and connect the dots of everything that has been covered in these blogs.
So, here you go:
1. Live Like Kings
Not by ruling others, but by ruling yourself. Stay away from the victim mindset. With courage and resilience your destiny is just yours to shape. Nobody can hurt you without your permission.
2. God, Faith, and Perspectives
Whether you are a believer, non-believer, or somewhere in between, let faith guide you toward kindness, strength, and peace. True faith never divides — it unites.
3. Build a Code to Live By
Integrity and duty are anchors. Decide your values early, and let them guide your choices when the world tries to sway you.
4. Relationships & People
Family, friends, and mentors leave their imprint on you. Value relationships built on honesty and love. They are the real magic fuel of life.
5. Happiness, Purpose, Goals & Habits
Lasting happiness isn’t found in quick pleasures, but in aligning your habits with your purpose. Build habits that pull you closer to the life you dream of.
6. Managing Change
Life changes like seasons. Some harsh, some gentle. Trust your instincts, adapt, and always look for your North Star.
7. Embrace Fear, Light, and Darkness
Courage isn’t about having no fear — it’s about moving forward despite it. And just as day needs night, strength often grows in moments of darkness.
8. Patience and Silence
Patience and silence are quiet strengths. They aren’t weakness; they are preparation. Wait calmly, listen deeply, and then act with clarity.
9. Being the Lighthouse
In your storms, be a source of light — for yourself and others. Even when everything feels uncertain, trust that in the end, things will turn out okay.
10. Boundaries & Choices
Saying “No” when it matters is as powerful as saying “Yes” to what truly aligns with you. And when decisions feel hard — seek clarity, know the risks, and trust your values.
Phew, that’s a lot to process! Of course, you need to discover life on your own and learn your own lessons. All I hope to accomplish with these messages is to just ensure that you develop a strong MINDSET, since that is the most important thing that can put you ahead of everyone else - no matter where you are, in what condition you are in and what challenges you might be facing. A great mindset trumps everything!
I fully trust your ability to grow into a strong and smart individual! Per chance, if you happen to face some disappointment, a setback or some pain - just have faith in yourself and let time heal things out for you! At times, when nothing seems to be going your way, you just need to take your time and focus on YOU getting stronger, since that is ONE thing that will ALWAYS remain in your control.
Keep growing. Keep shining. And never stop believing in the incredible person you are becoming and you deserve to be!
Love you infinity times infinity,
Your Papa ❤️